Thursday, October 29, 2009

Thursday evening update.

Hi everyone,

We would like to thank you for the outpouring of sympathy and condolences for kharizzmatik and SuperDotato. Thank you for helping to spread the word about this blog. We'd like to ask again that you please not contact either of them via DM, PM, @ replies or email.

At this time, what we know is that khar is still in the hospital. As long as her fever does not spike again, she will be released tomorrow evening.http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=1191950387081753133

A lot of you have asked what you can do for Khar and Ben. At this time, we ask that you leave well wishes, condolences, notes of encouragement, etc. here, on this blog. This will allow Khar and Ben to read them at their leisure with the added benefit of being located in one place.

We've also been overwhelmed with follow requests on Twitter. Rest assured that we will get to them, but please give us time. We're trying to take care of our friend and would appreciate it if you'd put any tributes, requests to send cards or flowers or anything on the back burner for now.

Again, we appreciate everyone's concern and cooperation in this delicate matter. Khar's health and well being is first and foremost.

We cannot stress this enough - at this time, please leave your well wishes and condolences here or on the Twilighted thread. Again, we respectfully ask that you not DM, PM, @ reply or email Khar or Ben.

- jadedandboring, Hattieb99, NanMcCullen and SuperDotato

17 comments:

  1. Ben & Jess -

    I am so sorry that you have suffered this loss and are having to fight for Jessica's health. There are really no words that can adequately express what my heart wants to say to you. I ache at the pain you're experiencing and I pray that you will find comfort and reassurance in the love of your families, each other and your friends. I consider myself blessed to count you among the people that grace my life and wish you a quick recovery and a wholeness of heart and spirit. Please know that you I have you in my thoughts and prayers.

    ~Brandy

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  2. I am so sorry for your loss and what you are going through. I can't even begin to imagine how hard this is for you. I only know you through your fic EP (which is amazing btw) but that doesn't lessen the pull I felt to leave this message and let you know I'm thinking of you and you are in my thoughts and prayers. Get Well Soon.

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  3. Jess & Ben -
    My thoughts and prayers are with you. I can't say that I know what you are going through, but pleasse know that there are many friends and readers thinking about you both. I hope you get well soon.

    -Marcie (mjpiper)

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  4. Khar and Ben:
    My prayers are with you both. I know you guys will pull through this. Khar I hope you get well so you can go home and rest in your own bed where your true healing will begin. Hospitals suck, I know, I work in one :). Get well soon BB!

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  5. Jess,
    I only really know you through twitter and fic, but you have brought parts of me alive. I am so sorry for the loss you and your family have expirienced, and I wish you nothing but strength to get through. I hope you begin to feel weel soon, my heart and thoughts are with you and your family at your time of need. Get well soon, lots of us love you and are sending good vibes to you. May angels help guide your way !

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  6. Jess and Ben,
    My prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss. Please heal quickly and thoroughly in both heart and soul. Get well soon!

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  7. Jess, my twitter page seems so lonely without you! Missing your entertaining tweets so much! I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way.

    I'm so sorry that you are ill and dealing with all that you are having to deal with. I hope that not only do you start feeling better soon but that you also get well soon. You've got a good guy there with you and we appreciate him for taking good care of you and for keeping all of us updated!

    Sending nothing but positive thoughts and vibes your way!

    Jessica (sapphireskies)

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  8. I am so sorry for your loss. I know from experience how ones heart aches from the loss of an unborn child. You never really get over it, but the pain does ease a bit with time. My thoughts are with you both.

    Shari

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  9. My prayers and thoughts are with you & your family.
    Here is one of my favorites prayers, it was composed by Mother Teresa of Calcuta, for the International Year of the Family:
    "Heavenly Father, you have given us a model of life in the Holy Family of Nazareth. Help us, O loving Father to make our family another Nazareth where love, peace and joy reign. May it be deeply contemplative, intensely Eucharistic and vibrant with joy. Help us to stay together in joy and sorrow through family prayer. Teach us to see Jesus in the members of our family especially in their distressing disguise. May the Eucharistic Heart of Jesus make our hearts meek and humble like His and help us to carry out our family duties in a holy way. May we love one another as God loves each one of us more and more each day, and forgive each other's faults as You forgive our sins. Help us, O loving Father to take whatever You give and to give whatever You take with a big smile. Immaculate Heart of Mary, cause of our joy, pray for us. St. Joseph, pray for us. Holy Guardian Angels be always with us, guide and protect us. Amen."

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  10. Jess and Ben,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Hope you'll get better soon!

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  11. Jess and Ben, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss. Please take the time you need to rest and recover, and to take care of one another. Your health and wellbeing should always come first.

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  12. There aren't words enough to express how we feel about you and how sorry we are. You are loved.

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  13. Jess and Ben,

    I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how painful that must be to go through. Jess, I hope you are able to leave the hospital today and that you recover from your illness soon. Both of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Take the time you need to heal and recover.

    Jen

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  14. I cannot even begin to imagine what you are both going through but we have every faith that you will get through this terrible time together. No words can express how sorry we are and how much we care.
    You are both in our thoughts and we send all our love and best wishes.

    Livi and Stuart

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  15. I am truly sorry for your loss. As someone who has gone through a similar loss, I empathize with you both and know that there is little more that I can say while you are grieving. Please know that you are both in the thoughts and prayers of so many who are here for your support when you need it. Please take care of each other.
    -Erika

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  16. In my thoughts and prayers. Take care of each other. This to shall pass...

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  17. Jess & Ben,

    Trufax, I don't even know what to say. Words just aren't enough. But I wanted to make sure you knew that you are both in my thoughts and on my heart.

    xoxo
    Nai
    (@snshyne)

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